Would’ve, Could’ve, Should’ve
If lack of beauty was the reason of breaking up a relationship, Jennifer Aniston would never have been cheated on.
If lack of talent was a factor, then Taylor Swift would have never had so many break ups.
If finding soulmate in your fiancè was enough, Freddie Mercury might have not met his real self.
If slipping out of sobriety would have made your partner leave, Kristen would have never supported Dax Sheppard.
If being an activist and humanitarian would have saved you a life-long partner, Jane Fonda wouldn’t have been divorced 3 times.
If being legendary at career was a factor, Bill Gates and Melinda would have been still in marriage.
If lack of boldness was a reason for breakup, Priyanka Chopra would have been engaged to an Indian guy.
If being poetic would have kept your boyfriend committed, we wouldn’t have Driver’s License by Olivia Rodriquez.
If being one of the most famous person in world would have given you a companion, Miley Cyrus wouldn’t be trending with #1 with Flowers.
If having a heart of gold would have kept you from a disloyal husband, Princess Diana might have been still alive.
If being an asshole would have kept them “tied up”, Selena and Justin would be divorcing right now.
If being violent would have “kept” the woman Oprah Winfrey would have been dead by now..
If giving gifts would have saved you from losing your love ones or partner, Ellen would still have her fans and Shah Jahan would have brought Mumtaaz back to life.
If being mediocre in your field would have kept you from successful relationships, Dylan and Kristen Stewart wouldn’t be getting married.
If being smart was a factor, Lisa Kudrow wouldn’t be in stable relationship.
If being multi-talented would have been a factor, Ayushmann would not have Tahira.
If being a good father would keep you from breaking marriage, Eminem would still be married and kid Haley would have not got mockingbird.
If being a bad person would have kept them from having lifelong partner, Hitler wouldn’t have died married.
If saving nation and entire race would give you successful marriage, Lincoln would have never had falling out with his wife.
If being a valiant warrior would have made them a better husband Kashi wouldn’t have had to deal with Bajirao-Mastani’s existence.
If being a clean and organised would have kept two of them tied up Courtney cox would still have her last name as Cox Arquette.
If being sloppy or OCD was a factor, world would never have gotten Rose and Rosie.
If being disabled was a factor, Jane would have never married Stephen Hawking.
The list can go on and on.
We often think there is something inadequate within us that causes a break up. That is not true. Sometimes nothing we do can save from a relationship from fading. It does not play by a single factor. The reasons for break ups are a space in between which cannot be explained just how being together cannot be explained. Love does not play by a formula but is an entity in itself. We think we lose people because there is something inadequate in us but that’s an healthy assumption. No one should have that kind of power on you. That need must be fulfilled from within. And as for relationship, each one finds the one who could fit in their weird little worlds. We appear, we disappear from people’s lives and others leave us. Each one has a role to play in one way or the other. At the end, it is we who decide who we let in our little worlds, and we have every right not be somewhere too. That does not mean we are not meant for love. It is meant to happen, one way or the other. As late Robin Williams said in Good Will Hunting, it isn’t about are you two perfect, but about are you perfect for each other.